I have always hated people asking about my results or grades or marks. If I want to tell you, I will tell you if not, don't bother asking because it is damn obvious I have no wish to tell you what my grades are. I have been like this since primary school, secondary school and poly. And this time in Uni, I don't see why I should be any different.
Look, I couldn't care much less about my grades now because honestly, as you get older, your priorities changes and when your priorities changes, your expectation and attitude changes. Getting an A is as equivalent to me as getting a B or a C and honestly not of a big deal. Because at the end of the day, it's just a freaking alphabet. As long as you know how much effort you have put inside, that is all that matters in my eyes. Sadly, I don't think my peers in school feel that way, I extremely hate the constant competitiveness and the wanting to outdo each other atmosphere. The judging of the level of intelligence by your grades is completely absurb and I honestly can't stand it. I honestly believe that everyone has their own strength and doesn't mean you do better in this area of field determines you would be good in everything. Everyone has their own areas of achievement and it disgust me how people judge you through your results.
I know, I am just whinning about school. Nothing's new I suppose. What's new is that grades are no longer a source of happiness or satisfaction to me.
On the other side, it's been 11 years since she left. I still quite clearly remembered how she looked like that day, that smile that gave me comfort each time I missed her. She taught me what love was all about. Love for your husband, love for your kids, love for your grandchildren and love the people around you. I could never even reach half of the love she had for others. Thats why to me she was the greatest. I love her and yes, I do miss her from time to time. And I'm sure everyone else who crosses her path does.
Look, I couldn't care much less about my grades now because honestly, as you get older, your priorities changes and when your priorities changes, your expectation and attitude changes. Getting an A is as equivalent to me as getting a B or a C and honestly not of a big deal. Because at the end of the day, it's just a freaking alphabet. As long as you know how much effort you have put inside, that is all that matters in my eyes. Sadly, I don't think my peers in school feel that way, I extremely hate the constant competitiveness and the wanting to outdo each other atmosphere. The judging of the level of intelligence by your grades is completely absurb and I honestly can't stand it. I honestly believe that everyone has their own strength and doesn't mean you do better in this area of field determines you would be good in everything. Everyone has their own areas of achievement and it disgust me how people judge you through your results.
I know, I am just whinning about school. Nothing's new I suppose. What's new is that grades are no longer a source of happiness or satisfaction to me.
On the other side, it's been 11 years since she left. I still quite clearly remembered how she looked like that day, that smile that gave me comfort each time I missed her. She taught me what love was all about. Love for your husband, love for your kids, love for your grandchildren and love the people around you. I could never even reach half of the love she had for others. Thats why to me she was the greatest. I love her and yes, I do miss her from time to time. And I'm sure everyone else who crosses her path does.
posted by Yana at 7:06 PM
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